Wednesday, April 18, 2018

Holy Shacking Up

The Episcopal Sect is holding its triennial General Convention this summer. There will be a number of resolutions put forward which will most assuredly speed the decline of the denomination. The proposed revision of the Prayer Book and new worship resources relating to human sexuality lead the list as always. Once the sect gave permission for the blessing of same sex couples three years ago, and called for a task force to study Prayer Book revision, everyone knew that the long denied goal of full marriage rites for same-sex couple was within reach, but that would require substantial changes in the Prayer Book's language in the marriage rite. The blessing of same-sex couples also opened up a can of worms because other groups might want a blessing of whatever living arrangement in which they were currently engaged. 

People "living together" are the next group who might be offended by not having a blessing of their own. Hence, Resolution A087, or what I call, "Holy Shacking Up" will be up for debate. Here is the full text of the resolution.

RESOLUTION A087 DEVELOP RELATIONSHIP PASTORAL RESOURCESResolved, the House of ____________ concurring, That the 79th General Convention acknowledge and minister to the growing number of persons entering into sexually intimate relationships other than marriage by calling for the development of resources that provide pastoral guidance and teaching on relationships that involve sexual expression; and be it further 
Resolved, That the following statement guide the development of these resources: “Qualities of relationship that ground in faithfulness the expression of sexual intimacy include: fidelity, monogamy, commitment, mutual affection, mutual respect, careful and honest communication, physical maturity, emotional maturity, mutual consent, and the holy love which enables those in intimate relationships to see in each other the image of God”; and be it further 
Resolved, That the 79th General Convention provide guidance to persons seeking to honor God’s call in all aspects of their lives by calling for the development of resources, including but not limited to spiritual practices, to aid individuals and couples in discerning their vocation to relationship, be it to singleness, celibacy, marriage and/or parenting; and be it further 
Resolved, That the Presiding Officers of the House of Bishops and the House of Deputies appoint jointly a task force to develop these resources; and be it further 
Resolved, That the task force report and offer these resources to the 80th General Convention for their consideration; and be it further 
Resolved, That the General Convention request that the Joint Standing Committee on Program, Budget and Finance consider a budget allocation of $30,000 for the implementation of this resolution.
EXPLANATION 
In 2016, the number of U.S. adults in cohabiting relationships was eighteen (18) million persons. This represents an increase in cohabiters of twenty-nine (29) percent over a nine (9) year period. In 2016, persons aged fifty (50) and older accounted for twenty-three (23) percent of cohabiters, or roughly 4.1 million persons. This represents a seventy-five (75) percent increase in older cohabiters over a nine (9) year period.* Over the past fifty (50) years cohabitation in the U.S. has increased nearly nine hundred (900) percent.** Clearly the number of persons in sexually intimate relationships outside of marriage is increasing rapidly. Yet when it comes to nuanced and sensitive guidance and teaching regarding sexual intimacy, many people feel largely alone, having found the Church’s counsel to remain sexually abstinent outside of marriage, insufficient and unreflective of their experience of the holy in relationship. This resolution calls on the church to develop resources that provide pastoral guidance and teaching on relationships that involve sexual expression. These resources may be used by individuals or couples, they may be used by Church small groups or in college chaplaincies, they may be used by middle-aged or mature Christians who are seeking guidance and direction as they seek to live in a way that is both faithful to God and expressive of the love and commitment they deeply feel. 
In the work of the Task Force on the Study of Marriage in this triennium, a number of qualities have come to the fore that ground the expression of sexual intimacy in faithfulness. This resolution directs a task force to use these qualities as a foundation to guide the development of pastoral guidance and teaching on relationships that involve sexual expression. God’s call pervades all aspects of our lives, including our relationships. We may have a vocation to a state of relationship, be it singleness, celibacy or marriage; we may be called to form particular relationships with specific people, as God called Joseph, Guardian of Our Lord, to be Mary’s husband (Matthew 1:18-25). Parenthood was once taken for granted as an inseparable part of marriage, but is now a choice—one that can sometimes involve the physically, emotionally, and financially costly processes of adoption or assisted reproduction. 
As with any vocation, God’s call to relationship requires careful, ongoing discernment. Also, God’s call to us can change over the course of our lives. A person called to singleness as a young adult may be called to marriage in middle age, or a person called to marriage may be called to singleness after the death of a spouse. This resolution would lead to the creation of resources, including spiritual practices of listening for the voice of the Holy Spirit, that can be used by individuals and couples, with the help of their faith communities, to discern theirvocation to relationship.
It is interesting that they keep "monogamy" in there. This is terribly unfair to the poly-amorous. But, never worry, the Episcopal Sect will get to them eventually.

I have yet to hear a theologically sound explanation for blessing any relationship outside of a male-female marriage (recall Bishop Waldo's pathetic go at it). The resolution quoted above fails miserably as well, disguising their attempt at theology through the clever use of  Episcobabble. The explanation,
 "...many people feel largely alone, having found the Church’s counsel to remain sexually abstinent outside of marriage, insufficient and unreflective of their experience of the holy in relationship."
is a typical reaction of a sect that panders to the spirit of the age.

It will be interesting to see if any of those bishops who permit same-sex blessings will voice any opposition to "Holy Shacking Up".  

6 comments:

  1. If they permit same-sex blessings, why would they refuse this? It's the same thing. "What would you like to do? Let's bless it!"

    Cohabitation has increased nearly 900% in fifty years, and these "religious leaders" don't see they're failing their calling.

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  2. So why are they still hung up on the monogamy clause?

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  3. Monogamy sounds better for the moment. They'll drop it for just "committed" in due course.

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  4. "...growing number of persons entering into sexually intimate relationships other than marriage." I really think the word "individuals" should replace "persons". This would pave the way for blessing non human couples like bald eagles for example who fit the criteria otherwise.

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  5. Or trees! I've recently sent photos of women in wedding attire hugging trees, literally.

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  6. When artificial intelligence comes into people’s lives, I predict that people will want to have their relationship with their robots blessed, and the Episcopal Sect will resolve to do so, and they will also resolve to be an advocate for the personhood of robots while continuing to deny the personhood of the unborn.

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